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Showing posts with label love life in Africa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love life in Africa. Show all posts

Friday, May 17, 2019

11.45 Pm At His Closet




His warmth was everything, his strong arms circled me and had the whole of my body wrapped up in  his arms,my head placed on his broad hairy chest,his right  hand moved up and held my head from behind, his fingers brushed my hairs, picked them strands by strands,pushed them back and revealed my shiny forehead.

My eye lids blinked, his fingers stroked my hairs some more  then moved a little to touch my forehead, it felt warm and soft.his touches were subtle,

My skin had  bumps.like it was out in the  early morning rain , my tommy skin folded ,he ran his  fingers down my face and  touched my face all over ,his middle finger found my lips and dropped on them.

He whispered all the while, words of endearment, in a low tone,he proffessed love to me,his voice was deep,he promised to love  me forever , I raised my head to steal a glance at his handsome face and our eyes met and Locked.

I wasn't aware he's been staring, all the while his eyes were fixed  on my face,taking in every details.

I made to look away, I  became shy all of a sudden,little smile was on his face as he held me  softly on my jaw with his right hand, "don't look away sweets,I love the look in your eyes" he said, I curled my body to his,I was shy,but I could do nothing, my face was in his hand.

He looked deeply into my eyes,steadily he looked,seconds gone into minute, two-three-four oh my,my body shivered and my knees got weak.

He was quiet,I was quiet, yet I could hear him speak to me,I heard him in my subconscious.waves and waves of emotions surged through my nerves and my vein tfed excitedly, our eye balls rolled,the smiles played still on his face,

I felt moist in my eyes,my lids  blinked,then he bent slowly till his lips found my lips and covered them ,his hands held my body tightly,

Firstly it was a soft kiss on my lips ,then his tongue parted my lips and slided into my wet mouth,his tongue roamed inside my mouth licking and sucking every part.

His tongue found mine and locked,he kissed me passionately, I loved the feeling, I kissed him ,his tongue rolled over mine  and my tongue rolled over his simultaneously, the pleasures built up,waves of pleasures ran all over my nerves,he pushed his tongue deeper,like he wanted to touch my throat, I curled deeper and deeper,my body and his body entwined,it was warmth all over,his fingers touched me all over ,his tongue licked every part of my mouth and locked in my tongue.

It was ecstatic❤

It was pleasurableđź’“

It was thrilling❤

It was passionate.đź’“

Tiny sounds escaped me.I heard his gbod,I could feel the veins round my cleavage tighten.I felt funny all over my nether region.

He pulled away from me,a little space between us,that moment I wanted more of him,I didn't want him to stop,I held his hand as he made to put my head on his shoulder "please don't stop" I whispered, he looked at me and smiled,my eye balls  were  dull and the lids could hardly open,my body felt so light,it was pleasured "I'm not stopping baby" he whispered back "just want to make you feel a lot  more comfortable" he said

He lifted me ,placed me to his shoulder,he took short steps and got  to his bed,he bent slowly and placed me on the nicely made bed,like Someone pushed from behind, he landed on the space beside me.

It was a beautiful cotton bedsheet that we covered ourselves with, each one of us held the other like so nobody should escape "are you not mine?" he asked in whispers because I shrugged at his touch on my womanhood.
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Sunday, May 5, 2019

Boy Bestie?No Way,The One I Have Is Destroying My Love Life


I was one of those  who always say"if my boy best was there before you  then he's staying ",but  from what I'm going through in the hands of my childhood friend who's been my best I'm asking" who needs an enemy with friends like this? 


Dear Stan,

I told you I was traveling out  to see my fiance,I'd be spending the weekend ,we had enough time the day before for little talks,we spent hours gisting and laughing  deep  into the night.

I took the last flight  after work and got to my fiancĂ©'s house very late in the night,I still took out time to send you a  message telling you I arrived safely.

Very early in the morning the next day  my phone rang,I was in bed with my fiance, it was a saturday,no  any one of us will be going to the office, he was sleeping the morning away, I picked up my phone lazily and checked who's calling, it was you.

I was surprised to see your call,I thought it could be something urgent, maybe you needed an information,"Hello Stan what's up?"I asked ,you  chuckled "everything is good Laide, you're at your fiance's?"you asked " yes"I replied, I waited to hear you out but you said nothing reasonable, you were chuckling.


I took a look at  the clock and it was 7.15 am,it was too early for any personal call ,especially on a saturday when people will be resting at home after a long week days at work,too early for non emergency call,not good time for random conversation
You knew I was at my fiance's ,you had nothing to say  yet you barge  in that early, I touched the red button and the line went dead.

You called back but I ignored your call,you sent messages abusing me  but I ignored you.


You've been a thorn in my flesh Stan,a fly in my milk for so long,I  had no love relationship with you,you are my childhood friend, we  have spent almost all of life together, we have natural likeness for one another,often times we've discussed our relationship and agreed we feel nothing amorous for each other, there's no sexual feelings between us,we were like siblings.

You're older with just two years but you protected me like I'was twenty years younger, we have been there for one another, we shared a lot in common! we borrow each other money and support each other in everything.

I support you whenever you find love, I loved the girls you loved and support your relationship to good growth.

But you don't do same for me,each time I find love, you always had something negative to say ,you scrutinize my relationships and  always come up with negative reports, you've disrespected my dates,you're always hostile to the guys I meet


Severally I've pleaded with you to let me have a love life ,at my age I should have a man I can call my own,you promised to change.

Meeting Gill was everything I wanted,he's my kind of guy,caring,loving and committed, I went into this relationship with determination to make it work,I don't want another failed relationship, this one should lead to "happy ever after", I warned you to stay away from Gilbert and I.

You started your devilish behavior, dropping on Gilbert and I, barging in and causing unnecessary bitterness in  between,you said you don't like Gilbert, how is it your duty to choose who I fall in love with?who appointed you the lord over my life?

Gilbert knows already that something is going on and he's not comfortable with the fact you're having so much influence on me.


I will no longer let you do that, we got everything good but it's time I make a choice, and I'm not choosing you, I'm choosing the man my heart loves and wanted, it's either you accept that and remain the friend you've been to me or you  walk away from me,so far away you either take this plea or you face the consequences,I'd definitely not take it easy this time.
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Thursday, April 11, 2019

8 Sure Signs They Are The Right One.


So what happened to you? You wake up to reply to his or her  text messages in between sleep ?you're obviously in love and you miss this individual a lot,it is okay but that's not all,there are  more .

 If you  realise all of a sudden that you can comfortably be you  in this person's company to the extent you share your ugly part without  being  scared of giving yourself out too much,and this individual isn't even bothered about the things you call 'ugly",this individual doesn't shame you ,but always willing to be part of your good and bad side,then you have got a score for a significant other.

You can spend times together without saying a word ,but you're comfortable, you stop being afraid when this individual isn't saying anything, you know the both of you can share unspoken words in your subconscious

You become trusting, even in the midst  of  activities you didn't understand, you're always patient to hear them out firstly,and this individual definitely  gives explanations without feeling boxed in,a huge point for a significant other.

You're not afraid to show your emotions, your vulnerability is an energy ,for this individual   will protect you in all around rather than take advantage of  what you feel,buddy score this a point for a  significant other.

You're not in any competition,you're excited for their accomplishment,you support them and you treat their glories like it's your own,it's exactly what you get in return.

You fight for your relationship, knowing nothing in life is smooth and easy,you see this individual standing with you to protect what both of you have,not any one of you is losing interest in  seeing you become an item,it's a relationship worth having ,you're holding tight to it because it's a huge point for a significant other.

Making each other happy is the priority in your relationship,everything suddenly become spontaneous, morning texts, midnight check ups,you are always excited about them.

You're respecting each other's needs,giving space isn't a big deal for you, normally having alone time is important to every individual, for in such moment we let out  some stress and we're able to curate our dreams and find out what inspires us.,been able to understand and respect these part  of human life in your relationship is a huge point for a significant other.

I'm not saying it's a sure 100% guarantee for a roller coaster  healthy relationship but over 80% marriages that kicked up having these  attributes as  reference  surpassed autumn years.

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Chioma
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