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Thursday, May 30, 2019

MEN ROUNDTABLE(Episode 1) Does 1+1 Come Into Play In The Issue Of Money?


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          Welcome To Men Roundtable.

This week we are discussing; Financial Discipline On The Part Of  Our Partners And How We React To Women Attitude Towards Spending ( Women and Money)

It's believed that 1+1 is 1 in the algebra of love, so I'm asking

 (1) Will you let  the   woman  in your life have access to your money ?
(B) Will she have freedom to  spend your money whenever she's in need without your permission?
(C) How would you react when she spends more than you ordinarily would  allow?

Elvis Alex, Canada based information communication technology specialist has this to say
 Yes, she's among the reasons I  am making the money

 I will make sure She  has enough to take care of  her needs. What if I wasn't available?. I don't want her to be calling me anytime she needs money.
. Depends on what she spent it on, I don't think there is a limit to what someone can spend. The issue will be on what she spent it on.

We will  have a discussion to find out why she used the money if it's a large sum  and if she needed to use that much.Bottom spouse has everything right to my savings.

Abalike Agbo Psychologist based in Rome Italy
1) Yes  because even if she asked me I will give her
B ).  This depends on. Love comes with responsibility or responsibility is attached to love , She must inform me even if she has taken already so that accountability is maintained.

C)Reactions will not help any matter and proper planning and  budgeting is necessary. We can't spend more than we earn. So she can't spend more than  what is allowed. Besides  we plan together.

Dana Joseph  works in a private sector in Benue state Nigeria

Yes I will
B. She will have liberty to spend whenever she needs money but she should  inform me beforehand unless  it's an emergency. That kind of emergency that makes logical sense.

C) If it was necessary then it's fine but if not then I'll frown at it.

Anonymous Respondent.

Yes I will allow a woman in my life access to my money.

I wouldn't allow her to use my money without my permission. I would also not want to spend her's without her permission unless in case of emergency both ways.
I will not be happy if she spends more money than budgeted.
If there is legitimate reason I will understand otherwise I would not like it.

Kunle , Journalist Lagos 
1.She has limited access to my money.
2.  She's to have my consent to spend.
3. She gets tutored on financial discipline.

So what's your take? Are you going to let her  spend as much as she wants to or there are limits?keep the conversation going.
Enjoy the rest of your day and beyond.

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  1. Hmmm. She is my next of kin. She is my immediate family. Currently, she is a signatory to all my company accounts. The mandate is either to sign. She is not overtly concerned about how much is there. But if there is a need, she has 100% access. She makes her own money so she is not irresponsible with how she handles mine.

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  3. My woman would have the maximum freedom to spend my money, I would give her the opportunity and power to spend if am there or not. My woman already knows my ATM card PIN and has access to my treasury already cos there may be some unplanned expenditures in my absence. I think whatever she does with the money is a necessity so long as it meets her need, makes her happy and I can afford it.

  4. Yes the woman in my life can have access to my money.She is free to. Spend responsibly and within an agreed limit. If she must exceed that limit, I have to be informed, it must also be discussed.The reason for this is to avoid frivolous,unnecessary expennditure.

  5. It is not a black and white thing. If she has sense and I have felt it firsthand plus her discretion is active, I will allow her have access to my monies whenever she wants to. For the aforementioned to be in place, it means there won't be any possibility of spending more than I would want her spend. It is a simple logic!

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  7. Enter your comment...well ipso facto she's my woman, there must be caution on expenditure.
    However, she has unfettered access to to my money.
    The money should be spent on legitimate things & not being extremely extravagant. We need also to inculcate the habit financial management & discipline.

    The fulcrum of my view is that, my woman has free access to our money because with her we are one, thus the money is ours. But it should be expend judiciously. Thank you Chi.